What empathy means to me

Although there are many definitions for the term empathy, one of which states that it refers to the re satisfys of one individual(a) to the observed experiences of another (Davis,113), a very fitting definition, however empathy is so much more than Just a label for a reaction toa situation. person whollyy I dont count on empathy is measureable by scientific assessment, rather empathy should be viewed as a means of moral virtue. A large part of empathy is respect dis complying with someones weft or thought, while being able to view a situation from their point of view without udgment is truly key.This being said, that doesnt mean you have to agree or transmute your thoughts, but the ability to take in both opinions and react approperately is empathy. Both of my parents taught me have you thought about their side of the situation? This use to bollix me until I discovered that taking a step back from my perspective and looking at it from a different approach usually made me chang e my attitude about the situation. No, it didnt always fix the situation, but it encouraged me to change my attitude from negative to understanding.Matthew 712 states So hatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets. Empathy is like a mirror, a reflection, but a reflection of emotions that you feel in your life being applied to the lives of those around you. This structure though commonly thought of as a sympathy or a form of comfort, isnt always the case. Looking at life through the eye of others is how empathy is expressed. This realization of others feelings can create a bond between you and them. Reflecting on your experiences and applying the emotions from your life to situations of others is part of this mirroring.Empathy was defined by www. newyorker. com in the article The Baby in the Well by Paul Bloom as an instinctive mirroring of others. He also brings up the case of The Empathy Altruism Hypothesis a study through with(p) by psychologist C. Daniel Baston. This theory states that taking into consideration others points of view produces a form of self-satisfaction. This self-satisfaction is selflessness that in itself self-motivates that person to express more empathy. I agree that there is self-satisfaction in helping others that drives you to want to help again, without any form of repayment.Empathy isnt Just thinking about doing something, but taking action. Empathy as an action seems to fall into a grey area where compassion, kindness, and comprehension all mesh together in a common meaning. According to www. thesaurus. com, these terms are interchangeable in this way, empathy is some much more in-depth than Just a term. Theodore Roosevelt once said No one cares how much you know, until they know how much you care. get off the ground of being human is having expression, and emotion. Without it, what would separate us from a robot? Gary Small and Gigi Vorgan wrote the articleIs the interne t killing empathy? (found on www. cnn. com) and bring up the statement have our brains bring about so desensitized by 2417, all-you-can eat diet of lurid flickering images that weve lost all perspective on appropriateness and compassion? I agree that it has. Empathy is something to be learned over time through personal experience. This cannot be achieved without interaction with others face to face. If someone never experiences a situation how are they to know think that much of our perception of empathy comes from our learning though personal interaction.The only way that empathy can be taught is by experience. Whether that be reading someone elses reaction to something, or taking the monkey see, monkey do approach. Regardless, empathy to me is my connection, reaction, and personal views of a situation being expressed toward others at all times and having respect for both of our views. I appreciate that I was taught from an early age to view others opinions, no matter what the ca se may be, and interpret situations in that manner. Listening, understanding, and interacting with others is the appropriate action in all things in life.